and i wanted to be part of that so i tell people this is a good reason for them also to come to fossellaience a rather unique piece of american culture in the making. one of the things we see some times of the internationals to come in who are used to traveling and different cultures and they end up perhaps here for a few years. could you also please train the americans coming into this house because i think they have expectations that of what they are going to see and experience that are unrealistic. some of them are based on the fact that everybody is very friendly and smiles and greets you. very happy to see you and let's get together. you must come over to the house sunday. people don't understand that in the south that's part of saying hello but that doesn't mean they actually want you to come to their house or they are going to stand delete to extend the invitation. that takes a little more doing so it's a little confusing for people who first arrived. who are the real seveners? when i ask this question and give presentations and say how many generations have to be here to be consi