francis rover were so side after they were defeated after the first election. they told the white house which they dearly love to take care of the china because will be back in for years and they were back in four years. i think the romance that they had, prior to them getting married in the white house story that will endure the test of time she was married in the white house. beautiful gown susan was funded by george cleveland was actually at this event. he's the grandson of grover. and mary in cleveland cohen they found the dress that actually exists the wedding dress that exist in the white house election house first ladies collection that's just a powerful display of how wonderful and how again she was. >> how does the family process that? >> i think it was a love story that was kindled by francis his father. i think upon his death, i think grover felt the need to make sure francis was taken care of for the rest of her life. they love each other think definitely definitely a lot of. the stretch of 25 to 30 years. but i think in time she trusted him he was