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psychologist gail saltz is a "today" contributor and director of clinical training at drexel universitywith you. >> so why do we resort to yelling? it is hard. >> it is hard. >> because there's so many things -- we're a little overwrought. and kids do push our buttons. they're trying to get our attention. they have their own issues to work out. that's how they're working them out. but it's hard not to personalize it. and that's why you get into the, you know, are you really doing this to me? >> and it almost makes us feel a little better because we get to just unload? >> yeah, we get to vent. and every pressure point needs a relea release. so we release in a way that allows them -- and we're trying to send a mess taj to the kid, too, to stop it. we feel we don't have a lot of other options because we've exhausted all of them. >> is it us or is it the kids? are they trying to say something with this behavior that pushes us? >> often they are trying to say something. and often in the interaction, the parent doesn't understand what they're trying to say. and they're not trying to understan