and i used to live in torrance which is close to gardena.new the area and i said i know the area and he said it's changed we have all those koreans now. then he started complaining that they don't simulate. and i said what you mean and they said they send their children to sunday school and that bothered him and i could not understand why you bothered him the other people were sending their children to sunday school to learn korean i did not understand what that did to him the other people are doing. that view of a simulation which demands the other people give up their culture and languages, see have somebody like president trump who complained to the interview and that is just noah simulation there. a simulation is really used as a way to say these people did not belong here. the only way to belong is to give up everything that makes them different. that is not possible, first of all on a basic level our identities have components the glue sticks and you can't ask people to give that up. >> you spoke arabic as a child and there's a point w