did anyone ever listen to garrison keeler?stor of the church of our lady of perpetual --hat is it? responsibility. the pastor there always gives this speech, and he doesn't about sex, but really it applies here. if he did not want to go to minneapolis, why did you get on the train? in other words, if he did not mean something to happen, don't do it. don't start a war. things happen when you have war. that always happen. they always have happened. smarten up, ok? >> i am from independence, ohio. this past summer, i worked at outback steakhouse, and one of the guys i worked with was extremely nice, one of the waiters that i connected with most at work. when a big family would come in, he loved giving it the little kids coloring books and extra cost to take home and what not. i ended up learning that he was a veteran of afghanistan and that he was diagnosed with pt est -- ptsd. when he got back, he had a messy divorce and it was decided in court that he was not capable of having it so care of his child because of his ptsd and his