garth fader's image. he is a real romantic and for the 50th anniversary of our first date. >> would have been 1958. so it was 2008. dick a range surprise party for me to celebrate the 50th anniversary of our first date. all husbands in the audience, try to top that. it was very special. invited all our college friends. he even had the good sense to tell me we were going to the british ambassador's for dinner. you don't want to take somebody to a surprise party, especially -- is true, especially women. if she doesn't have on a nice dress, don't want to take her hair in rollers, so he got me to dress up and told me this story weeks in advance and then the annual gridiron dinner happened in washington and the vice president at staff, we always said that the head table. this particular occasion after is having told me we're going to the british embassy that night i was sitting next to the british ambassador. seo as dick put it i had to read him in. he had to tell him the cover story, the british ambassador di