tools that didn't exist in gary hulsey's day. >> war is hell.is defined as being separated from god. god doesn't walk around a war zone. >> despite the hell, hulsey has turned his life around. in 2007 he became an elected official, a city councilman in pacific, washington. when the local press heard -- >> a killer on the city council. >> hulsey was forced to confront his past again, as his murder conviction became widely known. married 25 years now, he credits his wife, lois, for helping him understand something he never thought he would. >> i came home from vietnam, i knew fear, i knew anger. i didn't know how to deal with love or joy or happiness. i knew guilt. and guilt and fear would turn into anger. i was familiar. now i know joy, i know love. >> it gives me goosebumps just to hear your report, miguel. he talks about being married to his wife, lois, for 25 years. what does she think about his past? >> reporter: well, they have a very -- they have two rules, very hard and fast rules in their household. one, no alcohol in the house at all. sh