the lesson gary is still learning, from archie mcfarland. >> i still love my mother. love to ask and get answers to, but, i am not in a position, nor in my opinion, is anyone in the position to understand what is going on in somebody else his heart. >> that's all for this edition of dateline, i'm craig melvin, thank you for watching. >> i'm craig melvin. >> i'm natalie morales. >> this is dateline. >> i got a phone call, something was wrong with brandy she's not moving in the car is moving. >> emergency vehicles, officers and that is as far as i could go. there is my baby and i can do anything about it. >> she was a hardworking, young wife and mom. >> sweetest girl you could ever ask to meet. >> just minutes from home when she saw the headli