was that gary newman?. >> jimmy: well this is a big -- we were really into it like spaces and like, that was an apple coming out of a black hole. >> yeah. >> jimmy: i remember -- >> this here was actually, we cut out the yellow belt. that was -- i remember we cut it out. >> jimmy: and i remember, we got this photo from -- i got a telescope. do you remember? do you remember me looking at uranus? [ laughter ] stop, remember that? >> that was amazing. >> jimmy: yeah. >> and you found life on it, didn't you? >> jimmy: i found life on uranus. >> yeah, it was only a tiny little worm. [ talking over each other ] >> jimmy: -- all you could do is take photos in the bath. guys, ricky gervais. check out the ricky gervais youtube channel, for exclusive content. he's the one and only. jessica pare joins us next. come on back, everybody. [ cheers and applause ] ♪ mom mom mom mommy mommy momma momma ma ma mom mom mom ♪ ooh, yeah, ooh-ooh, yeah ♪ ooh, yeah, ooh-ooh, yeah ♪ i love ya ♪ ooh, yeah, ooh-ooh, yeah [ female ann

gary newman, a great goth. courtney love, not a great goth. a supporting goth saying it is indeed a hate crime. do you agree with him? >> no, i dwre gre with jedediah that all crimes are hate crimes. i do see a silver lining. you will get groups that are not generally known to be tough on crime. normally if jimmy goes out and murders somebody it is free jimmy t-shirts. now this person -- jimmy murdered somebody during the 18-month phase of their life where they are a goth it is like, oh throw the book at him. >>- q. i that is a smart point. if everything is a hate crime palm who are soft on crime has no choice but to come down hard. you turn every dove into a hawk. >> in the story they talk about the price of sub culture. maybe we are on our way to it. >> bill has sub cultures cultures in his underwear. what else could be a hate crime? how about being a gorgeous, sexy correspondent? >> what kind of question was that? >> it was a complement. maybe you can say thank you. >> can i just say goths are scary. who is attacking the goth? they are scar

. >> here to help us navigate is gary newman, author of "the long way home."ion, from separation. because i think the children need the time to adjust, if you rush it, then all of a sudden that kid of sets up some times for the step parent to feel like they were brought into their life a little too quickly. a little more time and patience. >> a sub stud for mom and dad. >> and discipline becomes a weird issue, doesn't it? when they're not your biological children, but they're with you, now. >> and that's the king. i've been working with thousands of step moms and step dads for decades and it's really challenging for someone to come in and start trying to parent a child that isn't their own. >> is that a conversation you need to have with your partner long before the children are introduced? who is going to be the disciplinarian? >> i find a lot of women, as a matter of fact, are left with the parenting role as a step parent and the guys kind of expect that. and they really need to have that conversation. saying i don't want to be put in that role, when your ki

gary newman is a psychotherapist and creator of "neuman method: creating your best marriage."s with a relationship on the brink, lack of trust and fear. >> we have to remember to nurture the emotional end of the relationship. in my study even cheating men, only 7% of them said it was about the sex. 48%, it was about the emotional connectedness. so everybody has to remember, if we nurture that emotional connection, that's the best protection and that ultimately builds trust and protects our love. >> we talked about amy and she's a product of divorce, she herself was divorced. is it tougher when you have that in your past to go forward with a relationship? >> she reminds us that childhood counts, what happens to us as kids, we have to keep that in mind, not to get stuck there, but to empower ourselves to be able to make healthy adult decisions. if i can understand that i'm mixing my past and my present, sometimes i can have that conscious awareness, i don't want to sabotage this relationship. i want to keep it real and keep it present. >> in your practice i'm sure you don't judg