everybody be clear, hate crimes are illegal everywhere whether based on race, genter, sexual orientation, religion or gender. this is a very important issue for the country, and i urge parents who are concerned about this case to talk to your kids. what kind of language are you using about your schoolmates? what do you think is a joke? snag can be very harmful to somebody. >> by the way, this leaked over into how people speak about women bp those story, in the press constantly. how people are referring to women. whether it's the right or left. awful language directed at women these days. >> rush limbaugh. >> the latest version. but a lot of horrible, horrible language. >> and bill maher on the other side. >> true. and women i don't think speak up loudly about it. >> i'm pretty loud. >> talking about lgbt issues. >> nobody accuses me of not being loud. >> when you get right down to it, you're right. >> i'm the father of a 12-year-old. kids who are bullied, kids who are bullies what should we as parents be telling our children? >> the most importance thing i tell parents, not what they tel