ryan giggs you have already mentioned. >> he's wonderful.t thirteen years of age he was actually training with manchester city when i went to his house. >> you and i talked about this the other night. this happens in sports here in terms of basketball coaches recruiting these young kids, because they go there very early when they are 12-13 years old, and you said to me, "you've got to get to their mother." >> so it got to a level where me and my assistant, who was archie knox at the time, and we were going up to his house every second night. it got to a level when ryan's mother said to me, "will you be back on thursday?" she was buying in tea for us and supper! the mother is always the strong character in the family home, without doubt. i was always saying to all my scouts "get the mother." >> mothers want the best for their sons, they want the best coach because they think that manager/coach will bring the best of their son's talents out. there is always a danger with the family in that the father will try and live his live through the boy.