. >> i'm gina malone, and tim bass used to be my husband. mandy, but i knew who she was. like, we weren't friends or anything. but i would see her every day. i met tim by working at my grandpa's little grocery store. and he came in for a hunting license. and i was working that day, and he just said, "do you want to go out sometime?" it was nice that someone asked me out and was interested. >> they were supposed to get married when she graduated from high school. after mandy was killed, he married her and it was a very sudden thing. >> all of a sudden he comes to me and he's like, "do you want to get married now?" and so we got married. >> they had three children together. and he became a local delivery driver for the franz bakery outlet. >> he was very controlling, and always told me what to do, what i could wear, what i couldn't wear, who i could talk to, who i couldn't talk to. he didn't even call me by my name. he called me by -- and i would tell him, i'm like, "i don't like you calling me that." and he was like, "oh, whatever, why can't