ish major and mary giuseppe. he says the whole unilever thing, men not like that, right?blown. >> some people feel like they have been dealt a bad hand. they always say, i can never -- i never get the right guy, i don't -- >> i have bad luck. >> is it something we are projecting out there, causing our own problems? >> absolutely. absolutely. what you need to do is really need to get in tune with your true self. there is truth in advertising. when you're comfortable with that true self, you can display it to the world and start attracting that great guy, right guy to you. >> a lot of people don't want to know the truth and face it themselves, ish. >> very true. >> absolutely true. we have this equation, we have a personal brand equation. and that is how you look, how you speak, how you act is your personal brand. if all those areas are consistent, you're going to do really well and be successful in business and in life. >> you can change. if you are -- if you are a certain way, we were talking about angelina jolie, she walked around with a vial of blood around her neck, so