and that they as he walked through the crowd, some 600 goldstar kids, young, so full of hope, he beganto make their way without a father or a mother. and marty had planned to speak, but he couldn't. so we did one of the things that he does best. he began to sing. and in that moment the highest-ranking military leader in our nation forged a bond with those children, boys and girls who, at such a tender age, had given up so much, in a way that perhaps nobody else could. and year after year they have been fighting back, because they don't marty dempsey will always give him everything he has, his voice, but even more, his whole heart and soul. this is the man we honor today. a friend to so many troops and families across our military, a patriot with a profound love for our country and those who sacrifice for it, i trusted leader who in a time of great change made it matter all the time. i am extraordinarily grateful to have had him by my side through the bulk of my presidency, and i'm extraordinarily proud to call him my friend. marty, for lifetime of extraordinary service, you have the de