well, as i explained to you last night, if you're familiar with gomer pyle and our generation or older certainly is familiar with gomer pyle, sergeant carteram., who yelled at a flattop, was constantly everything he said was yelling even when he was polite w and speaking softly. that was my dad. >> he was he was my baseball coach . he coached american legionca baseball for 35 , 40 years. and he he coached high school football for about thirty five years. and so me and my two brothers, we grew up playing, being coached by even when he was notl officially our coach, there was we were there was a lot of hard work, a lot of, yelling. t >>wa but that was that was the way we grew up. you know, my dad and like i said, he was coaching high school football since i was a little kid. so screwed up he didn't make excuses for you . he never felt sorry for me. no, i was probably treated the worst on the whole team and ,you know, strangely, i got that i didn't particularly likeg ,but i got it, you know, the things that he said to meai and i think sometimes don'tet get me wrong and i think i told you