she posted a conscious uncoupling essay on goop ware.ember, she introduced the world to tracy anderson. what is conscious uncoupling? >> the new term which simply means divorce that has no acrimony in it. there's no strident anger. >> reporter: so it's an alternative to spending millions on lawyers, airing your dirty laundry in the public and damaging your children. we just aren't designed to be married that long, according to the article. >> we're not set up to be with one person four or five or six decades. >> it's not easy to be married for ten years. we laugh a lot. so far we're sticking it out. >> divorce becomes as natural as marriage. we have to figure out a better way of dealing it that tennessee charlie sheen and denise richards. there's talks about mammals, insect, followed by a sensible conclusion. there aren't no bad guys, just two people. both are actually partners in each other's spiritual progress, animosity dissolves. it's only under these circumstances that loving co-parenting can happen. d deep deepakchopra is not suppo