gordon lidy. you believe all that? >> i believe what he is saying is absolutely correct. >> women have some power to detect? >> i know my wife in particular has that power to detect. i belt yours has it as well. either one of us better be careful if we have such a notion. >> i know your wife very well. rose who is a brilliant make-up artist and has been with me for about 20 years. rose was the make-up artist for president clinton. she may still be. she made you up today. >> there we go. she hit the big time family. >> she improved on nature. >>> this is really a season of tomorrow for -- tor meant for the person who has had a dull russ relationship. the adulterer is a very tormented person. is that true? >> of course they are. you are dealing with feelings you have towards your spouse, your lover. you don't know which way to turn. it is the ultimate guilt. if you do not have the gil it is antisocial-type of personality. >> we are joined on a live line by pamela paul who is a distinguished writer and published a book ca