. >> amity, that really sort of gets to -- you've got a book coming out on coolidge, and grace coolidge was quoted as saying you just do it. and, you know, of course, i think that's true about women in general, you know, we put one foot in front of the other. but she -- she had not been part of her husband's mipolitical li. he had really excluded her from his political life and suddenly he becomes vice president and she's in washington big time. >> what do you do when the war is not on, the rest of the time of being first lady when there's not a crisis, when i look at grace and the two people that i will mention that came after her, mrs. hoover and maybe mrs. bush as well, you look what they did, what they did was education. very, very often. they turned to that. so, you have someone in grace's case she was the first -- first first lady who graduated from a coed state school. she graduated from the university of vermont and she actually had this bit of professional trade training to teach the deaf. so, that was incredible. >> and when she started dating cal, one of her friends said to h