his birthday at his californian home with his wife meghan, and friends now former royal butler grant harrolda little boy which seems like five minutes ago to me, joins us to talk about harry's birthday. and harry said, and where harry has been and where he's going. grant, thank you very much for joining us, now, forgive my ignorance, but i'm not entirely sure what harry actually does at the moment. so 40th birthday is a time for reflection, a time for looking forward. what does harry actually do ? harry actually do? >> thank you for having me on. very good question . i think a very good question. i think a lot of people ask the same question on a daily basis as a as a working member of the royal family, we knew what he did, but obviously now living in the states, it's a bit of an unknown. we're aware of what he has done something because obviously the documentaries, the book, but at the moment he's been very quiet, which is obviously a good thing as well. and of course there's been rumours recently, wasn't there, that he might be returning back to the uk, which obviously is not going to happ