and so this is where the epigraph of the book is this line from the great gatsby that says, "reservings for me a posture of grace, it is the picture of grace. it's the idea of seeing people as being on a journey, and that there is hope for them to grow and evolve and change and be better, and i believe that is possible of my family. so, if you want me to say that my family are... i will absolutely say without question and without caveat that they do evil things sometimes, and that is extremely painful, to look back at my own past and know that i was doing evil things, cruel things, unmercifulthings. there are lots of children still in the westboro baptist church, your fellow members of the extended family, never mind others who have brought their children in since they've joined up. do you think the authorities, knowing what they know now, should intervene? that is a really... you know, ithink, specifically in terms of, just because of the first amendment in the united states, i don't think they have any standing to intervene when it comes to the doctrines. i do think the physical puni