tom gresham, host the gun, talk radio show every weekend on stations across the u. s. a. you can get the podcast and he's a gun talk dot com. and tom has some, perhaps surprising advice for 1st time gun buyers. frankly, buying a firearm for self protection is not for everyone. if you're not going to make a commitment to safety and ongoing training, i would encourage you to perhaps reconsider. but for those who want to get a guide, my suggestion is to go get a class 1st and last training. because you don't really know what you need and you don't know what you're going to like until you've had chance to shoot. a lot of ranges will allow you to rip the guns and try them. what i suggest is that you call arrange, arranged for an instructor, get some one on one time when instructor and say, look, could you bring 3 or 4 guns, or can i rent some guns from you? and then figure out what works for you. unfortunately, typically a lot of women want to get a small gun, something feels good in their hands. but the physics at a dictate that small guns recoil more, they kick a lot, and th