so joy davidson, gresham, her ex-husband, was abusive, was outlandish and mistreated.and their boys and, he saw through her experience how hard it would be to be trying to raise two kids, just doing it on your own. he was kind of but he'd just do it on your own sort of thing, a man and, you know, calling it as home as castle. but in her position and a mistreated and then you know abused by a husband and so he writes a letter to an in florida basically says you know i've said hard things about our british health system. all right. he's been critical of it. but it's better than if there's nothing. right, which is a little bit of a, you know, a view that it's not the ideal, but it'd be better than there being no safety net all. so i think it was his experience knowing joy and seeing what it was like for her to try and struggle for a while, that it helped him appreciate a little bit more that there's got to be something out there for. those folks, ideally it would be the church and, you know, family charity. but if that's not their, you know, there's needs be something els