that groom returned from russia to get married. once his bride is settled in, he plans to go back. community groups that work with the family of migrant workers warn of tough times for those left behind. >> reporter: migrant workers and russians go to the big cities and learn new skills. they are far from home. this is a big problem. >> reporter: particularly for those looking for the perfect partner. this woman has been trying to find a husband for three years. with 80%, mostly men, working in russia, mr right is hard to find in the local personal ads. >>> all the good guys are working this russia, there aren't many men, and the ones that are are not well educated and don't raise enough to raise a family. >> reporter: poverty and lack of the jobs means many leave the country. it challenges the value of this conservative society. most tajik families are aware of the draw backs of having one or more family members working in countries like russia. while many endured the challenges, there's little open destruction. there's root causes of the breakdown of family structures. >> long di