dennis murphy (voiceover): grosse pointe park residents were shaken. it just didn't make sense. e well liked. bob, big bob as he was known around grosse pointe, with the vanity plates to prove it, was active in rotary, a past president, and hands on for almost any community fundraiser you could name. jane was a mainstay in the high school mothers group and regularly volunteered at her church. dennis murphy: so how did you meet jane? bob bashara: good friend of mine in high school married her best friend, and they introduced us, and we started dating. and we clicked pretty much right away. and within two years, i asked her to marry me, and she said yes. dennis murphy (voiceover): bob says he loved that jane didn't hold anything back. bob bashara: she was outgoing, a go getter, yet she was very loving and kind. and i just was attracted to her right from the beginning, because she had a good heart. dennis murphy (voiceover): the children came along, first robert, then jessica. dennis murphy: this is where the kids grew up? this is where the kids grew up. dennis murphy (voiceover): a