anne, we'll come to what gus sayer said in a few moments.ake me back to this awful day when you discovered that phoebe had taken her life. >> well, it was -- it was stunning. because -- i knew she was under stress. and i was worried for her safety. and i had told her that the night before i had called the school the week before and spoke again to the adjustment counselor, which was probably about the third time i had spoken with her since november. and -- shocked. i -- stunned. you don't expect to come home and -- and find that your amazing kid has been pushed so -- to such a limit. and i had booked her a ticket to return to ireland to take a break. and she just needed to hold on for two weeks. and i was at a loss to explain to anyone exactly how intense it had become because i wasn't being told by the school. and i remember telling the police who had to -- to tell me, that she had been being bullied. that, you know, this -- this bright, beautiful girl who was so excited to go to the catillion -- >> had she confided in anybody about how bad