hannah arendt talks about this, right?was complicit, from all of my team—mates around me, you know... you talk about arendt‘s quote about the banality of evil and you say not all adults around me were perpetrators but they looked the other way. absolutely. you said, you are in your early 40s, i'm guessing your parents are still alive? my father has now passed, rest in power, and my mother is in the south of france, actually i was just visiting her about four weeks ago. so what is the relationship like now? the relationship with my mum is really good, you know? we've both grown and again, the book is written from the perspective of a 14—, is—, 16—year—old, and i think that all of us who run into any of that age group, they basically aren't very fond of their parents, generally speaking. i get you, but when she reads that when you are still 13, you are physically abused badly by one of the medical team that was looking after you as an elite swimmer, she must now feel a terrible sense of failure in terms of protection. i thin