iately and well-dressed and very >> reporter: his name was harold henthorn. according to his dating profile, he lived in colorado and worked to non-profits. he didn't smoke, rarely drank, and he said he was a planner. eventually harold flew out to toni in person. and with them both being methodical types, they devised a formula for lasting love. >> they had come up with a ompatibility. and it was five cs. and i don't remember what they all stood for. compatibility was one of them.s one of them. >> reporter: chemistry, maybe? >> chemistry was one of them. when they met for the first time, they would know if the was there. they'd confirmed four out of the five before their first meeting. >> reporter: so when they met it was combustion.as one of them. >> reporter: toni ticked off her cs. then she introduced harold to >> way more outgoing, way more vocal than she -- she was quiet. i thought, this is great for her. this gets her out of her shell. and it gives her somebody to do so >> reporter: harold was a widower, and told the bertolets he had waited a long time f