elisabeth hasselbeck joins us. >> thanks for having me.h child care. >> my boys are so active, i have to watch them constantly and i would never do anything to put them in harm's way. >> do you feel your discernment is not as sharp if you were to have a glass of wine and try to watch the boys? >> i would get overwhelmed having to do both and trying to do both well. >> reporter: the internet is full of sites devoted to women who believe motherhood and alcohol aren't mutually exclusive but some are horrified by the idea of a playdate involving wine. a post on our "gma" facebook page set off a firestorm with some calling the playdates risky or a recipe for disaster. lora deutch is a founder of baby bites. a mom support network that hosts cocktail gatheringings. she says society applies a double standard when it comes to moms and alcohol. >> you hear dads taking their kids to the baseball games and enjoying a beer with their friends, and nothing has ever been said, nothing, you know, and all of a sudden the moms who do the exact same thing, it