operation, having erything laid out exactly the way it's supposed to be and having everybody in place and havi things done becausit's such a pcise... function that... and that should be carried over into everything. when my house, when everything i own, when the people in my life are... in order, then i can keep thinking clearly. it must be quite distressing to you, then, whenou see thisunt of emotion that are really lacking order. sort ouncomfortable. well, suppose emotions can be in order, also. ishat what.. although hryakes is beginning to open up, the gap between the jakeses is apparently very gat. in addition to recomnding that they continue cos therapy, dr. rivas-vazquez will probably suggest that each continue in individual therapy, as well. if i trusted people, or you guys, eugh to talk through things while i'm working them o, it would probably make life easier. in the group setting, each person comes wi their own kindf problem, bugroup therysetting, offers oppornitys to discuss and work through common issues as well. also offers a safe atmospher to take risks in expressing in, to try

xi's taken an act i havi role in diploma city as well as domestic affairs. >> xi jinping's pather was a vice premier, so she became part of china's informal network. princelings gain power by taking advantage of their parents and status and ties to influential fingers. but xi didn't have it easy. authorities ousted his father and jailed him during the cultural revolution. xi was forced to work in the countryside as a teenager. he went to a prestigious university in beijing from 1975 to 1979. and then he spent the next quarter essentially holding down key positions in the communist party and the government in shanghai. xi gained domestic and international prominence in 2007. he skipped the stage of politburo member and went straight into the politburo's standing committee. xi's wife is a well-known figure in her own right. she is a popular singer in the troupe belonging to the people's liberation army. analysts say her star status and support from the military has helped xi's career. xi has spent the last couple of years cementing his position as successor to president hu jintao. he vi

he did, what prophet muhammad said and did, the records of buhali and muslim- buhali and muslim, e havis- the sayings of the prophet buhali and muslim. and those volumes, you'll find that, where the prophet said that. and this is religion, so i can talk to you a little differently than i talk to the public, and in our holy book, the qur'an, as you know, the qur'an, god says he made you from one single nefs, and this nefs does not necessarily mean male or female- nefs does t have to mean male or female. soe made you from one single nefs, and they translate nefs in the arabic dictionaries or whatever meaning person, self, soul- soul- personality, taking all- the whole person, seen as the personality of that person. so this is the nefs- the soul- it comes from the soul; originally, it meant soul. so he made male and female from one soul- from one soul. and it says that- yes- and in the same book, he says, "the believing"- given the distinction between the two- "and the believing men and the believing women"- then it says, "- and the thinking men and the thinking women"- puts them side by si

are not compelled to participate in a health care cents, and missouri, citizens there said we're not havia health care exchange there for the affordable care agent. john: the feds can compel it, but it's harder. >> right. it indicatings the citizens of missouri are thinking about this issue correctly that it's a bureaucracy at the state level regardless if it's the states or feds, it's a bureaucracy, not a marketplace. the bad news in terms of ballot initiatives, there was a handful of bad news across the country. oregon ballot initiative, that would phase out the estate tax or the death tax, the estate tax will come up again this year because it's part of the bush tax cuts from the federal level, but that failed 53% to 46%. john: david boaz, other goods news? >> other than the marriage and marijuana initiatives and the health care initiatives, i think that can be taken as a sign that there are a lot of libertarian leaning voters, libertarian instincts in the public so maybe it's not that just they left obama, but republicans drove away independents and suburbans with a lot of the social

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us but somehow 18 months after it was finished the guard's leadership still does not have a could havyer: you found some serious problems? >> yes. >> reporter: and from all indications, nothing significant changed. >> yeah. frustrated. i'm sure they are. >> reporter: he's referring to the 14 guard members he interviewed. his report reads sexual harassment and a hostile work environment was common place. >> you call this a big problem. shouldn't it be a big priority? >> sure. it should always be a big priority. when you find these things. >> reporter: do you believe the information in this report embarrasses the national guard? >> all day long. >> yes. >> it substantiates our claims. >> reporter: our investigation included interviews with nearly two dozen members of the california guard all frustraterd with the current state of the culture. >> i have a mandate from the governor to change the culture of the organization. >> that was major general david baldwin at his formal confirmation hearing earlier this year pledging to fix deeply rooted problems dating back several years. >> in a le

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it also should be distinct from jepdser and havi gender. >> i want to bring chris on this.otally legitimate question that should be asked of men, women, republicans, democrats. it's both about senior citizenhood and seniority. nancy pelosi, whatever her chronological age, has been in congress since 1985. it's a system that rewards survival. any organization, you know, media, politic, fortune 500, wants a mix of ideas, ages, generation as. >> the average age in the house and the senate is quite high. not talking 30s or 40s. >> there's a political dimension. if you're a party trying to appeal to a cross section of the american public, you know, you want to show people involved at all levels with power of various generations. i think you also get a better policy mix when you have people in congress in positions of authority who know what it's like to be 30 and struggling, who know what it's like to be 50 and facing retirement. right now, you know, the power is all about survival and age, whether it's senate, democrat, republican, congress. it's seniority. >> so in effect, we'r

these are hard-to-describe must havies in one sentence but that ultimately makes them, i think, moretisfying movie going experience. >> reporter: this is 40 chronicles the life experience of middle age and "the guilt trip" butts seth rowigen in a c with barbra streisand. that's the holiday box office preview. >> i need to get more. i haven't heard of half of those movies. >> you! all right. we'll make a date. >>> 5:52. coming up a couple of bay area college football teams have a chance at a bowl game. we'll tell you which ones they could end up in. >>> plus another twist in the 49er quarterback controversy. what the team's offensive coordinator is saying. >>> 5:54. a pair of bay area teams will be getting invites to bowl games. san jose state on track for its first bowl appearance since 2006. with a 9-2 record it could have a pick of bowls. the spartans could end up anywhere from the hawaii bowl to the military bowl in washington, d.c. in the meantime, how other top 25 teams play this weekend will determine where stanford ends up. a win in the pac-12 championship could mean the rose

there they havy problem finding workers. ali, where you are in ohio, it's 7%.da, 8.7%. john zarrella, 8.7% unemployment, is that the co-issue voters will take to the ballot box in florida on tuesday? >> reporter: there's no question about it, chrischristine. they're already taking it to the ballot box. this is the early voting line. tomorrow is the last day for early voting and the line is probably two hours long already here now. the key issue here with unemployment, construction industry very hard hit, particularly new housing starts. the reason for that? there's such a glut of foreclosed existing homes that that supply is still out there to be absorbed. just up the coast, couple hundred miles, kennedy space center, coincidentallily, retiring the last of the space shuttles today, "atlantis." more than 4,000 highly skilled workers lost their jobs with the closing of the space shuttle program. yes, indoed, jobs in florida is the number one issue. ali? >> all right. thanks, john. cnn's poppy harlow is in cedar falls, iowa. much lower than the national average, 5

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so i think that experience -- could havi annan led the group to see if they can re-establish something similar and this report of which has not been very much observed. i think we have ideas for iran. that will give really intrusive inspections. it will give the right for the international community to go where there is concern. not where iran is declaring. but then to pay for that is to lift the sanctions. and then we can have an outcome. and let the iranian people take care of it. it's not for the outside to do the regime change. >> thank you. we'll take a question or two from the reporters in the front row and then go to question from the audience. if you could just identify yourself and direct your question to a particular person. >> sure. barbara from the atlantic council. jim, i want to get you to talk about what would not be small war because conventional wisdom has been if you can resolve the 20% issue, it calms the israelis down. so why is that not a good area to begin? in return for some sanctions released that the iranians would get, something he has been better than put on

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