and robin heidt wife of carey heidt, heard a loud knock at the door.er husband carey and his parents had been shot. >> i said some how was carey killed and they said that he was shot in the head. >> the news left her numb. she told the jury, she could not breathe. a few hours later, craig called. >> he was crying really hard and said he couldn't believe what happened. and i said, are you okay? and he said no. and i said, craig, did you have anything to do with this. and he said no. >> she confronted him again when they were all gathered at his brother chris's house. >> and i saw craig there and i went over to him and i said, you know i want you to look at me and tell me if you've done this or not. and he said no. >> robbyn says that she saw craig at the funeral. and within a week, he asked her if they would be together again. >> he asked me if our relationship was gonna remain how it had been. i told him i wasn't sure at that time. >> in those tumultuous early days. the two kept it cool. and so did the detectives that came across what they considered a