. >> no heimann, no diamond. that blew up on the internet after a facebook group was greeted with that same name. >> there been on twitter with this no heimann no diamond. people have said it's revolting. upset by this. i want to speak with someone who might understand why this was created in the first place. so i spoke to dean over skype. he is part of the coalition for men and he is also immense right activist. >> there's a lot of women who expect that if they have a lot of commitment to things in their man. whether he's tall, rich, or handsome. our culture doesn't. our culture doesn't discuss what the men want. i see this # more of expressing frustration more than i truly must have the virgin bride. >> they focus of much on virginity it's not so much about that. guys are realistic but it's more about the fixation and society have with the diamond. the bling. >> if you look at history, what does the ring represent. it represents the man's ability to buy things and do things for the woman. we are still keeping t

. >> mark heimann is a perform orsor ofspots management at george washington university. he says parents are too focused on the future. they want their kids to specialize in only one sport hoping it will land them big scholarships at top schools. >>> it's not the most important thing to be the best 9-year-olds pitcher. the real job of the parent is to protect a child and help them reach their potential as an athlete. >> j aim en says people who don't make it on advanced leagues get the wrong message and drop out. matt snyder's sons play baseball. max is 10 years old and says soccer taught him more than how to score goals. >> i have learned how to try your hardest because it gets harder ever year re wide to learn how to lose. >> sometimes parents are the ones pushing kids toward sports. if they are not interested, you can only push them for so long mary parents don't follow that approach. don't coach your kid. don't be banging on the glass, pointing, telling them to do this. the kids are worried more about the parents than me. >> mariano says the rink where he coaches focu