i mean, as far as our what even to believe really though and where to turn in then sergeant helgren's son wanted us to do a press conference. we love you and we want you, we need you to come home. everything will be okay. way pleaded for andrew on that news conference to to come in like they wanted us to have him turn himself him. we love you. and we once you home with us, everything will be okay we, i frankly not recall the ride ha or anything. cuz yeah, we up and left, i was kind of in free fall, it just seemed like it was snowballing, rapidly, everything seemed to be fine. i mean, there were no red flags, no, nothing. that's what's making this so difficult for us as law enforcement, it's i mean, ah, with the school they had a vigil to other students put together. and they asked mander to talk. eric and i said some words from a little speech. she noticed peg and farm to come home if you are in trouble or just come home, want to help her, your friends. ah, most of the electrical program missouri as far as the faculty and the students. you know, people are pretty generous and, and the