and before long her internet inquiry got a response from "hendry" his name was john, john diamond. >> john loved women, he was a ladies man. john always had girlfriends. >> so debbie could certainly see her brother was spawning to a solicitation like michelle's. my brother has got a great personality. he is an attractive guy, and you know, his personality makes him that much more attractive. >> then a few days after meeting online they met in person at a local restaurant. >> he was charming. he was funny-- talked about movies and music and things that me and marty would talk about. >> john diamond wasn't army staff sergeant, trained as a sniper, highly regarded, decorated, had been in the service. >> he was a playboy himself. he had been married and had a child from his first marriage, and he left the first wife and married, they had a son together. >> michelle didn't know that john was still married, but maybe it did not matter, at least not for him. she loved the sex, the attention comedy excitement. >> he was very attentive, he was very affectionate, he was very adoring, yeah, it f