you regard herlm as naÏve. a blind believer in religion. is the way it is characterized early on, so we have fun with it and laugh about it, but at the end of the film, she forgives the people who perpetrated this act against her. wasmost effective part seeing real grace. her grace kind of triumphs over this guy's intellect. it shows that you can be as intellectual as you like, but it doesn't mean you have all the answers. has aorking-class woman better approach to life than the guy with the oxford degree. tavis: for me it was this realization that at various points they are both trying to find each other. when are instances sometimes a child tries to find a parent. sometimes the parent might try to find the child that was taken or they gave up, but when they are both on the search for each other -- >> that's the one thing that gives you faith is the fact that people can be apart physically, but they can still have an emotional connection. that's something we played on a lot in the film. us hope, thatives you can still love someone from afa