room and then we see hersch's bed and, rachel, you made hersch's bed. can you tell why? >> well, i can guarantee you he never makes his bed looking as nicely as i made his bed looking and i wanted his bed to be ready for when he does come home, that he has clean sheets and, you know, just all ready to go for him to just lay down in bed and read the book that he left with the bookmark in it next to his bed. he is reading a book by the dalai lama. i think it's called "the art of happiness." i'd like him to pick up where he left off. >> wow. john, it is friday. and in jewish homes you bless your children on friday night. what is your blessing for hersh? >> well, just the standard blessing that in jewish tradition parents zbuf their child. we will continue to do that. rachel goes out on to the balcony and screams it to the skies and we will do that again in a few hours. our blessing beyond that one is, you know, rachel's mantra has been i love you, stay strong, survive, which she says throughout the day to hersh and to herself. i continue to say that i know