although dennis skinner, hilary benn, margaret beckett were really kind and generous to me.some others, you know, really spent some time with me, me earnestly asking question after question. i went on a parliamentary delegation with ken clarke and we became quite good friends. and he was he gave me some of the best advice i've ever had in politics. such as? well, one thing that stuck with me is neverjudge success in politics in one day, one week, one month, because too many people feel that they're not being noticed today and get insecure. but just leave it. see how you're doing at the end of the week, at the end of the month, the end of the year. and he then turned to me and said, well, i was elected to the house of commons the year you were born. i can do it over the decades, he said, because there is ebbs and flows and if you look at people who are the same intake as you or same age or whatever, and they're suddenly being talked about and they're being thrust forward, he said. never get insecure because just keep doing what you do in your own way. and politics has a funny