hilary bennett-coles: i could interact a lot with patients if i wanted to, but... i just... i'm not very sociable at the moment. if anything, i'm extremely lazy, and from being a person that was... sort of hyperactive all my life, it's very strange for me to suddenly have all this time. i've watched a lot of very bad tv. donald bustle: she's definitely end-stage of her illness. the lab values are really much worse as far as her "t" cell count, and her viral load is elevated. hilary bennett-coles: that's another thing which i've noticed i think makes a big difference. people that are married or have a partner seem to deal with it slightly differently to those people that are on their own. and... which makes total sense, you know. you've got someone supportive. people acquire an enormous amount of stuff throughout their life, and what i find really helps people is addressing that stuff, to put it in a simple way. one of the things that's important to me is getting to know people before they get to that point, so that we can make sure that when they are physically letting go, w