because daniel holtzclaw's like 6'2". >> see. that. >> reporter: that's kind of a big difference right? >> i really didn't pay any attention. i really didn't. i just know what was being done to me. >> reporter: does this trouble you at all, that the descriptions are so far off? >> no. can you imagine going through that trauma, and then trying to remember how tall he was, how much he weighed, what did he look like when you're being sexually assaulted? you know, that's the last thing on your mind. >> reporter: among their many other problems, most of the 13 accusers never reported the sexual assaults. why do you think all the other women stayed silent? >> because their lifestyle. and their relationship with the police department. >> reporter: but one woman did not stay silent. remember jannie ligons? daycare worker and grandmother? she went to police right away within hours. how did she describe the attacker? >> she said th muscle body-builder big. she thought he had blond hair. once he started doing the things he was doing, she wa

holtzclaw is married. and lori dowda is not only his girlfriend, but his sister-in-law. >> yeah, i was married to her sister for 30 months before me and lori actually started talking, started building our relationship. it's just been a very rough road. it's been well worth it, though. >> even though she hasn't been there my whole life, she still is related to me. and i'm not sorry for meeting him, i'm not saying i'm going to leave him, because i'm not. i'm not saying that our relationship's over because of that, i'm not saying that. it's just -- i'll feel a lot better when he gets divorced. >> but for you dowda says she would rather focus on the future than dwell on the past. she enrolled in the jail's ged program to get her high school equivalency degree and will soon take her certification test. >> getting my ged means i can get a legitimate job. somebody could hire me because i have education. they look at my diploma and see i don't have a diploma, i don't have a ged, and that shakes them about hiring m