then you have someone like howard stern.to take up more space, he's very relaxed. look at him. this is his norm. his his baseline. if all of a sudden, howard stern started playing with his cuticles or buried his hands in his pockets and looked more like woody allen, that would say to me as a law enforcement officer, there is more to the story here. >> a lot of this is subconscious, but you say you can consciously make changes. >> absolutely. i have the seven-day plan. for seven days, you learn a new skill every day and at the end of the chapter, it's great, i give you ten exercises. some you can go out and do, some you can do from the comfort of your own home. simply going to youtube and looking at oprah when she interviewed kris angel, the magician. he guessed her number, 1 to 100. how did he guess it? well, there's a body language element. i tell you what to look for and you can use this in your life. >> let's look here. first one, a job interview. you say with a handshake, you can make a big impression. >> you can. a hand