right is relationship expert matthew huffy. >> he's a dating coach on the new nbc show, "ready for loveompany, get the guy. and i've coached 50,000 of them in seminars now. >> i bet they all want you. what do you say when they get all love puppy? >> i keep those parts of my life really separate. >> now what do you do if women say this and i've heard this a lot and felt this, that. there are no great guys here. i -- >> i've been through them all. >> that's gross. >> i was not thinking that at all. >> you know, you've tested the waters and there's nothing swimming. >> i'm actually going around the country right now doing these, get the guy seminars and as i do, there's always a question i ask at the beginning, i say to the women in the room, how many guys do you meet in an average week? now most women think they're meeting guys, but when they answer the question honestly, they're between zero and kwun. and 90% of them are at zero. the question is not where do i go, it's how do i actually meet guys in my everyday life. >> how do you? >> stop playing hard to get. it doesn't work. it's been