hassle institution it requires several degree of generalization you mentioned before that even right hugh sachs this we're all doing it i really enjoy all of you know i commentating our sex differences i can't imagine how you can build a functional system or what is it like more than that how different genders any approach just thing socially again i think is the tendency in some of the western countries substitute sexual differences that gen. that deference is an xterm that's right i think it's an incredible chance i don't see how we can build anything that will actually save our kids. trouble in. fact it really aren't you know patience and concern for it's part of our yeah we have to set them up for sex we have to send all of our systems up to take care of the sex of the child 1st which is and well let me use an example of schools we we we can't we can't say to schools ok we've decided not for ideological reasons that you no longer have to pay attention to the fact that that kids have male brains and female brains there are boys and girls they're going to all be they and we're not going to pa