i. always norna i didn't want to have children it's just that i've never known that i wanted to have children if that makes sense but i feel really lucky to have been gone now instead of a 100 years ago if i could be back on 100 years ago not wanting children pretty much my only options would it be to become a a lonely old woman living in a ginger bread how steep in the far east oh baby unknown. i would have made a terrible known that i really got i am alive and i think maybe for quite a long time i wasn't 100 reached aboard grounded place within myself it took a long time to feel ok in being in the world it's ok that i'm here it's all ok that exists. there is so much pressure on women to be a certain thing and one of those very positive roles is to be a mother and a mother with very caring and happy i was told to have a child that does a massive pressure for most of us and it turns out it's also a pressure for women who don't want to be more players because if you don't want to be a mother as bush then you are seen as less of less of a woman less natural less erring less nice less of a good