do not think i would do that if i was you. i said, let me try to do that. all of these people, except prince is so young, but the beatles and the stones and all the guys from europe and stuff, i knew them well. they knew me well. i was a rock-and-roll singer at 15, so they attach themselves to me. i am getting ready to work on the album now. i got something on there i am going to dedicate to you. >> i want to tell all of my friends if i stopped speaking, you understand why. i'm david walked past you and not say something, because -- i may walk past you and not say something. >> i am going to do it at the playboy festival. my husband said, why don't you do it with tavis over there? okay then. tavis: i do not want to mess with your house. it is not that serious. >> he said, why are you dedicating a song to tavis? >> i am going to be in my box seat watching you. i remember the classic song "what's going on." and is not as high, i would not put it at second place. you talk about a classic song, when my producer went on the internet

>> i don't know. i know irew up as they say hard, in a very working class family, and my first introduction to acting was really based on the fact i didn't want to go to my neighborhood high school, jamaica high school in queens. i just didn't want to take two buses. i didn't want to get up in an hour. i knew it was not a great high school. and i said, is there another public school i can go to? and so i auditioned in and then i immediately got -- i mean, told no would be an understatement. but i immediately felt under attack and an enormous amount of really negative preure, and that's when the kind of street fighter in me stepped up and said uh-uh. tavis: how do you keep from being bitter in the midst of all that? >> i don't know where bitterness comes into it. i've been too lucky to be bitter. tavis: not initially you weren't. >> i don't know. i heard bad things but i wound up getting beautiful parts onstage. my first movie was "diner." my second movie was "tender mercies." i did really good work, yeah. i th

>> back then i was probably -- i think i was pretty proud of what i had done. s happy that i had finally gotten away from that. now it was stupid, it was pointless, and two people died for nothing. >> after he was incarcerated, brown reached out to his friend's mother, vicki. >> it was very scary to me. i was shocked, and i didn't understand how that could happen, and i guess i was selfish that i didn't want to just openly accept that phone call right away, but i'm grateful to him, yeah, i'm very grateful. >> i have led a very i don't know what kind of life you want to say, but i have done a lot of things in my life -- >> we all have. made mistakes. >> and so as i go through life, i just look at everybody and look at them as who they are instead of what they've done because if we look at each other for what we've done, we would never have relationships with anybody. >> he said to me you've always loved him and have been there for him. if he ever needed anybody, he would need you now. >> are you all right? >> yeah. >> he's a wonderful young man. >> you know, a lo

>> guest: well, i--i--i--i lo--i love books. i--i--i love books. books are important. i remember when i was growing up, i couldn't check the book out of a--out of the library because i was black, and they didn't allow blacks to come into the public library in pike county, alabama, in troy. and s--and we had very few books in o--in our home. so any time i could get a book to read, i wanted to read a book. so i got into collecting books. and i would go to antique shops, flea markets and different places to try to find a good, old book. a--and one day in washington i--i went to a market, an old flea market in just an old store out on the highway near washington national airport. and it was a lot of dust. and i saw this book. it was "stride toward freedom,"

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so i was tired and i... i... you know, i'm not a puritan. i have no objection to leisure time and enjoyment. i have a ptner now, jim rea, i was an emotional attachment. i'm in love for the first time in my life. >> rose: also this evening, former senator george mcgovern, also a democratic presidential nominee, talks about what it means to be a democrat. >> i don't agree with those who criticize the federal government as our enemy. i think it's the best government in the world. and look at all the things that has done... so i cringe when i hear some of my republican friends talking about the terrible federal government. >> rose: barney frank and george mcgovern when we continue. captioning sponsored by captioning sponsored by rose communications from our studios in new york city, this is charlie rose. >> rose: barney frank is here. since 1980 he has represented massachusetts in the house of representatives of the united states. from 2007 until 2011 he chaired the house financial services committee where he remains a ranking democrat. among his

i get a lot wrong. i cringe when i pronounce a japanese word because i know i'm not say itting correctly. i can get away with it. here i don't know, it's harder to get away with it in the bay area because we are such a melting pot. and so many people who know japanese where i don't. what i discovered i think on the whole, for all cultures both cultures and the writing process itself is the more i write about different cultures the more i realize how much alike we are. and if you take anything away take that. take the fact that all humanity is the same. you know the -- culturesar a background for me it makes you who you are. if you are japanese you bow. if you are chinese you don't. there are certain things that are specific to each culture. but if you are writing characters there are specific things that are everybody. and that's more important to me in that sense. you have the culture's background but if you can understand why a person who lives in that culture feels the way they do or does what they do i think that's

i need to explain? no. [laughter] i was -- i had written, 3 quarters of the book and i was getting tired of only seeing from the point of view of steven. sometimes you get bored with your own character and your own voice because it was coming from his point of view only i thought how would i get another voice in here. this is the fun part of write itting makes you creative. when you get in a jam you think of things you might not normally do. i thought i need to get other voices in here and i will do this. when sachy goes up to the village. the leper lady when she starts telling him the story her voice come in. i thought to myself, thank god. i could write a section in her voice and not only be in his voice. those things don't come until you need to work them out. that stumped me for awhile and came to with when she and the other villagers who contract lepercy decide to kill themselves to not bring shame to the village. and she can't do it. the man servant who's story that steven slowly finds out rescues her. >> even now i feel t

i don't know. i haven't seen it is all i can say. i know there are some people in my life who are not famous who have a very hard time dealing with their sexuality internally, whether or not that's religion they were raised in would choose have a life not "inside politics" consistent with their feelings they feel would be easier with the feelings from the catholic church from some elements of society to tell you you are less worthy, that's hard thing to take on. >> let's take a break. let's talk about family. we have something in common, our fathers both born in southern ireland and both raised as catholics and both impossibly good looking. [ female announcer ] experience dual-action power, with listerine® whitening plus restoring rinse. it's the only listerine® that gets teeth two shades whiter and makes tooth enamel two times stronger. get dual-action listerine® whitening rinse. building whiter, stronger teeth. on my journey across america, i've learned that when you ask someone in texas if they want "big" savings on car insurance,

i was 6 years old. i never had any great plans. i would like to be in england at home, but i do not know, career wise, what i would do. i guess i would study and try to get a qualification. tavis: since you have no backup plan, this better workout. i don't think you will have a problem. how is this film different? >> is 3 d, the sets are enormous, the costumes are fantastic, and it is an amazing group of people. i love it. i have done a couple of weeks of filming. tavis: dicaprio and mulligan on the same project. that should be fun. it is my delight to have you back. up next, grammy-winning singer- songwriter and shelby lynne. stay with us. please welcome shelby lynne back to the program. she has a personal new project called "revelation road." you can also pick up a copy of her christmas cd. great to have you back. where did you go for thanksgiving? >> i went to new york. tavis: was your first time playing the macy's thanksgiving day parade? >> yes, i enjoyed it. it is such a tradition. tavis: i was there one time for the parade. i

-- >> jimmy: i didn't -- i didn't do that. >> i was obsessed with them. >> jimmy: i swear, i swearno one's believing me. >> you had a really big one on the show on the one that i -- >> jimmy: yeah, i had a giant one. yeah, so people could see it for the stage. >> everyone has -- but who's never seen it. >> jimmy: no, yeah. >> but i -- so i loved my trolls. i collected them. i mean, i literally have, like, you know, a lot. i don't even want to say how many i have. >> jimmy: is it "hoarders?" >> no. [ laughter ] >> jimmy: i mean, does kevin bacon have to move out of the house for all the trolls? to -- no. >> no, but i have squeezed him out of all the closet space now. but no -- we -- >> jimmy: do you let your kids play with them? >> i let me kids play with them. yeah, when they were little. when they were like four and seven -- which, of course, is like the worst thing. we got -- i mean, they're antiques so like, the eyes pop out and they could have easily choked and died. but, you know, i was -- [ light laughter ] i, you know -- i get some inappropriate parenting award somewhere. bu

i got hurt. and i took a couple years off and i didn't go back. i went -- i started to do the acting thing by mistake. and i kind of went -- it was hard for me. because it was all -- i wasn't real social. and i wasn't very verbal. i was just dead quiet. plus i was still on the street. and i was handing out fliers, on 42nd street. and doing this, that and the other. and i shouldn't have been doing. and it was like -- it was weird to be on the treat and going to acting class like regular people. i'm sitting there watching, going, when i'm -- am i going to get in front. class and read something? for two years i sat in class and i couldn't get up in front of a class. it was like -- it was like i couldn't do it. i was terrified. and then one day, i was with this teacher said to me, to do like what you call work, she put myself somewhere else. and someplace that i loved that i missed. and i made it to fifth street gym. and we're doing this activity where i was lacing my shoes up. and my boots and she said you hear -- you har sounds in the gym. who's ther

i mean. >> yeah. that's what i do. iu worked at the bar. >> that's what i do. >> jimmy: you go into work. >> yeah! i go, look, when i leave here right now i'm going to the bar and make some -- if you give me $12 i'll make you a cocktail! [ cheers and applause ] >> jimmy: what's your move? what do you do? what's your move? >> i do, well, when i was a kid, my favorite movie was "cocktail" with tom cruise. 'cause tom cruise was the man. [ cheers and applause ] >> jimmy: oh yeah, yeah, yeah. >> you know, pre '98, so -- >> jimmy: no -- [ laughter ] he's still the man, he's still the man. >> so, you know, i was watching the movie and i was like man, i need to get my tom cruise on. so, i, you know, i flip the bottles and get the -- you know what i mean. >> jimmy: yeah, yeah, yeah. >> nah. >> jimmy: "kokomo" -- "kokomo" plays at your bar nonstop. >> nonstop! i mean, i clipped somebody once. [ light laughter ] so they got their drink for free. but other than that -- >> jimmy: it's a tough neighborhood, yeah. >> i hear you. i mean

i mean, there's quite a few of them. but i think i in the political process is something that has great meaning to me, and i had traveled around the western part of the state of massachusetts in 1994 to campaign for teddy kennedy's re-election. and his nephew, ethyl kennedy's son michael kennedy, was my in-state coordinator of my activitie activities. i went to massachusetts for four consecutive four-day weekends in the month of october 1994 to cover all of these community colleges and these different stops. we covered a lot of ground, we went to a lot of small venues because it was presumed that kennedy already had the boston democratic vote in his pocket. so we went out to western massachusetts. when we wurn done, we were driving back to town to jump on a plane. we were driving from williamstown or springfield across the state to go to logan and fly home. and the phone rang. i was in the van with the late michael kennedy, who died, unfortunately, and teddy kennedy called me and said if i win this race, you're partly responsible for

>> i think i grew. i grew as an artist. i grew as a writer. i wrote songs every day. ducing. and, you know, practice is what you need. i've written a lot of awful songs. hopefully -- >> what's the worst song you've ever written frmgts i don't want to say it. this is cnn, come on. >> cnn worldwide audience, your worst bruno mars song you have ever written. the one that even now makes you come out in a weird sweat? >> me and my partner phil wrote a song called "bedroom bandit." that's all i have to say. >> i can't imagine how batd those lyrics are. >> i promise you, piers, had you been in the studio, we thought we were going to win 18 grammys with this song. the next day we called each other up like, what were we thinking? >> you told a good story that i read about you when you were talking about elvis presley and a bit of footage you'd seen of him performing on i think a tv show with an audience of women. there was a moment when elvis spotted the girls were going crazy. rather than doing what most guys do, speed up, get to the moment, he slowed it all down. >> that's ri

i don't have an office. i don't have a budget. i have to do all of this on my own and raise money privately from people to do that. it's been a dream of mine to hold office so i would have some of the power to do some of the things and try to create some of the reforms that i've wanted to do. >> from the way you're talking it seems to me this is not something you've completely ruled out. you've not decided to go for new york mayor at the moment. could that change in the future? >> that's a possibility. that's a possibility. the only reason i say that is because right now, the timetable i'm on workwise, careerwise, contracts i've signed, and obligations i have would make running for mayor, for example, very, very difficult. i mean, it isn't something i could do, possibly. i see people running for mayor. to be very plain speak. there are people who are running for mayor who i'm overwhelmingly indifferent about most of them. there's a couple if they made certain changes they'd be okay and there are certain people running for mayor i'm

i i i i i i am i i. think i i i i i. i. i i. i. i. i i. think i. see crack is there including a couple from cabana who are currently managed by former chelsea star down to tresco he got them promoted to russia's top flight and earlier in the season he spoke with artie's consenting to top off fun you left chelsea three years before i'm on about the club do you feel any regret that you weren't there when salaries went sky high and the blues won the league yeah i think it was about time for me to leave the club but i didn't know at the time that but i always was going to come and also. in this time i was not in the good relationship with the coach who was the only them i had to leave but i was sorry for sure because after two years i left chelsea won the championship you spearheaded team which played in the champions league so why did you decide to make a move to combine a team which has been just relegated to the owner of the club and the government of the region come. especially in a manner for me three times in my house on the street or computer i t

i learned a lot about myself. the biggest thing i learned is i love to perform. i love music. i love what i do. ging in the studio and writing songs and coming up with video treatment to the point that during that year i do not count the 72 songs i recorded as work because it's what i was born to do. and i learned balance. i learned the importance of taking time for myself and i was moving around so much that i had no idea that i really have 16 grammys. like i've heard that and i got up and accepted my awards but i didn't realize what an amazing accomplishment that was. >> you never had time. it's just this treadmill. >> yes. >> the more successful you get, the less time you have to enjoy anything. >> exactly. >> finally you went enough, i'm having a year out, i'm going to enjoy what i achieved. what was the most fun you had in the real world? >> well, i did everything. i definitely enjoy the simple things like, you know, driving and picking my nephew up from school, traveling but not working and actually visiting museums and seeing ballets and having great conversations with people on the plane

unfortunately i lost sight of what i believed and what i knew. a lot of it had to do with the competition of me wanting to win with too much of a diet-- desire not to lose some of the competition and i played roth and if you attack one of my clients you expect us to come after you in your election. we were of thuggish group of lobbyists but that aggression unfortunately was made normal by the fact is thought i was protecting clients that i supported the issues i made a lot of money for them 80% of the money went to causes that is not like mine invested wisely or to help people is not a bad investment. i thought i was doing good stuff. if you take 10,000 a month for this for client, they get defeated they don't win and you don't care. your attitude is i will just get another clan but our attitude was we will live or die with our client. if they lose we don't come back alive. bala is for better or for worse in my office. looking at that i thought this is the area of my life, i felt i was moral but unfortunately i was so off the path of my perception

i mean i see both sides. you know i found it was some racists up there i mean i wanted to kick the head of a few people have a daughter i was a puerto rican my mother is a puerto rican. from morocco. and you know i get it i get a pretty great kid out of it and i've heard people mumble things you know white trash race mix or. you know we show muslims what dead you know that's my daughter i would walk away and say you know what i wish all christian kids with dead i would never say anything like that about anybody's situation and i think that's pretty. proud of what i did down here proud of everything i did that day because i've i've had help more mexicans that i've caught i mean i must have thrown. hundreds of bottles of water over the fence to people food and medical help. so it ain't all like negative. it's been a long ride for the. a. report from malaysia and it looks like twenty eight years of my current three years of my life so i have no idea what might go off so here i am struggling to adapt to the city you know. w

like it you know i feel i feel so great here and i love working in russia it's different it's new and as i said you know i think what i'm what i'm looking for here is some kind of truth and some kind of energy that i miss that i'd like you know and i like the every time i was making and making a movie hero doing something here i always came back and reached and that's what i'm looking for you know is to reach myself with a great experiences and here never medium it's always like a strong it's always the extremes you know when you when you come to russia compared to friends it is a bit when you do a russian the you don't get this kind of response in the west it's move mostly for the russian public so so so what is it happening is that sad for you that he will do something and hollywood it goes international these are russian it stays here it wasn't like that before. it wasn't like that before because the cinema the russians you know i so great i mean the history of the russians and i so great you've been so many great directors in film

i think i. became a director because i had that need to need to tell stories in oh i love people and i love telling stories that are i think important to be told i have a project in berlin that i'm working on right now and i think it's a very important story that i have to be told which tells a lot of about the german people especially during the second world war i think it's a story that never was never been told and i think there is a lot of stories that are never been told i think in russia you have like a so many great stories that should be told you know unfortunately right now in russia people want want want to have action movies but there is in the history you have so many fantastic stories and i hope one day there will be talk and. this need for telling stories this is what actually made you made you take on writing the stories the self as. you know. it's beyond my control i something that came into my life and i had to do it i did stage work as a director and i did a play. this year and and but directing a movie is something that that i need to do and i have stories that i really have to i

i don't know. i haven't seen it is all i can say. i know there are some people in my life who are not famous who have a very hard time dealing with their sexuality internally, whether or not that's religion they were raised in would choose have a life not "inside politics" consistent with their feelings they feel would be easier with the feelings from the catholic church from some elements of society to tell you you are less worthy, that's hard thing to take on. >> let's take a break. let's talk about family. we have something in common, our fathers both born in southern ireland and both raised as catholics and both impossibly good looking. óómógwgó what makes the sleep number store different? the sleep number bed. with the sleep number bed, it's not about soft or firm. it's about support where you find it most comfortable. the magic of this bed is that you're sleeping on something that conforms to your individual shape. on a traditional mattress, there is no adjustment. you get what you're buying that day. with our bed, you change th

i didn't have nothing to lose. i mean, i have my family, don't get me wrong and my son and everything like that. but i just had that mentality. i was like, [ bleep ] that. i'm going to give them hell. >> sometimes you get the nice, sweet rosie, if she wants to be nice and sweet. and sometimes you get the crazy, i'm going it kill you rosie. >> travino proved both rosies could be equally dangerous. >> i want to touch it. >> staff warned me about this. she can actually draw people in. which she did on many occasions. and one of the stories that's very well known about rosie, among the detention officers, is that she actually developed a personal relationship with one of the detention officers. >> we just started flirting around. and i don't know. one thing led to another. i really thought she was going to set me up. i really thought she was working for the prosecutor. >> when travino entered into a relationship with one of the jail's female detention officers it was considered a serious breach of security. >> yeah. they wrote m

i grew up in the castro peter i am bisexual. itwo children who are grown, in their 50s, and a granddaughter who is 12 and is brilliant. i have a history as a registered nurse, a psychotherapist, and sexologist. i am very fortunate. i bought my house in the 1960's. i bought it for $16,000. a lovely little house in glen park. it has no stairs inside, no stairs from the street. as a very lucky. but i live alone. i have a cat. my kids come over a lot of my friends come over a lot. and i go out and do stuff. i am longtime member of harvey milk since the beginning. i knew harvey will. harvey milk is putting on an lgbt elders forum in march, march 24. i just wanted to focus on so many issues, particularly on housing, which was so brilliantly discussed here, homelessness issues, aids issues, on a safety and health care and independence issues, particularly housing. i have friends and younger than me who have been waiting for years. [bell rings] i want to say one more thing, i was on the advisory board at new lease for 11 years before it c

i didn't know the alphabet in between. i was nervous and ie step at a time very japanese like. i began to study and read everything i could find on the japanese culture. the incredible thing was not having everything that went into it and it still became a quiet book. there is a tsunami. there's tv and lep easier and a fire. i call it my zen book i think it's because as i was learning about the japanese culture, all of that started to go into the book. and it gave me the structure of what the book would become, which was very much taking after what a japanese garden it. early on a read about gardens. you don't know where you are going you just read. because japanese gardens are a huge aspect on the culture i started reading on gardens. i love the natural and the idea on how they use the gardens and how much it reads to them i started reading. i read a line like the silk worker line where it embraced me and i thought, that's what i would write about. you never walk from the front gate to the front door in a straight line it's always a curving

the reason i say that is i reckon and i'm not an expert. it performances i have seen this year were george clooney in "the descendants" and meryl streep. >> to the extent that the oscars, sometimes those votes swing in a very wide track. they will honor someone for their career and hand them a career achievement award even though their particular work might not have been their best work or the best work in that category. they are going to want to honor someone who they deeply admire and might not have a chance to do so again. and then there is someone who is like a hood ornament for hollywood glamour, someone they think is a great star. and then there is someone who is not going to make a lot of movies, but they are going to give them -- when beneny won that moment when he was climbing over the people in the audience, he didn't go on to make a lot of films in the united states. sometimes the academy decides they are going to stick that thing in the hand of the person with the performance. >> this guy is getting paid millions of dollars to do

i don't. i put my hands around her neck and i choke her. i can't control myself. ts and feet. >> he beat her to death with his hands and feet. >> until i know it, i hear a wheezing sound and i said, lord, i killed her. she's not breathing. so i rushed up out of the house, grabbed the pocketbook, i get the pocketbook and i leave. >> i could not find the car keys or her purse. >> i go to the bank and i go through the drive-thru in my own car. i go through the drive-thru window and write a check out for something like $150. >> sherman ray moore was at the bank window trying to cash a check from my mother. >> the bank teller alerted police who picked up moore at a nearby hotel a few hours later. >> put me in the police car, take me to the county jail, read me my rights, tell me what i'm charged with. i'm charged with capital murder. you're going to get the electric chair. we're going to kill you for taking a life of some woman, a white woman. you're going to pay for it. >> moore was sentenced to life without parole and spared the death penalty. his victim's son got a c

got i got peace of mind because i know if i hit this guy i know to repercussions is more likely i'm going to kill them if i had him so being that i know that i know what i'm capable of doing it makes me humble in a sense to just say hey walk away should this sport be talked to kids i mean yes and i'm going to tell you i mean kids yes really yes i start as age of seven and what it did was it allowed me to be able to look at bullies and if if if they first of all allow me to stand up to bullies ok i put them in a place if i needed to segue of all it taught me that to just walk away from these guys and not try to prove to my friends that i was tough and the third thing you did was that allow me to get rid of my energy as far as you know you have a lot of energy as a child you have to use it up you know you would be destructive and on you know it really helped save me kept me out again that kept me off the street life it kept me it kept me in a positive environment you were of the man who stuck little blue klitschko with in twelve rounds and he later

i think i have a decision making problem. that's what i think i do. because like when decision comes, i know right from wrong and i'll be like, oh, that's wrong, but i just do what i like to do instead of what's right. i do what i want to do. >> figuring out the stressors that contribute to kids landing in juvenile is never an exact science. some come with serious crimes. some minor offenses. 16-year-old repeat offender ayryana is back after being released barely a month ago. >> are you allergic to anything? do you have any health problems? >> no. >> suicide? in the past or the present? >> yeah. in the past. >> you've been suicidal in the past? and you've never received counseling for it? >> ain't nobody know. >> your mom? what was your reason? what made you change? what made you not think of suicide anymore? >> my brother. >> your brother? that's a good reason. how old is he? >> 11. >> 11 years old. >> i do have two younger brothers and the one older brother. i've really been taking care of my two younger brothers since i was 13, because my mom's alwa

you know i really hope i. i leave the experience and rich from the bolshoi. theatre but i also hope that the bolshoi theatre leaves this experience and richard as well i mean having learned from someone who does and who doesn't come from the school who doesn't come from the interior and has a different kind of style and way of of doing things and dancing and they're inspired and changed as well because it would be nice if it would become full circle like that rather than me just leaving the experience having gained everything in them then just saying you know with anya you you you think the russians are ready to learn from you i certainly hope so because i'm ready to learn from the russians they're not all that conservative good this is one of the most conservative places in the whole world yes but we speak we speak a similar language i speak english they speak russian but we speak the language of ballet ok lee we do less question probably what's been the most difficult parts of your russian experience so far. i think the most difficult part was making the dec

i really didn't think it was in my career path in a sense but when he made the offer i was very very surprised i would felt privileged i felt humbled and you know from the very beginning i really tried to ask as many questions as possible about the offer and to be honest. he could answer all of my questions i mean he was very very prepared to make a substantial commitment to me and the bolshoi theater this is the first time in history when the former takes a full time job a job at the bolshoi when you told your friends. should be a joke this could i mean this could happen i mean an american couldn't be a president of the russian federation and you can be both. you know i mean my friends have remained and will always be very supportive but they realized i think as much as i did that this is a once in a lifetime opportunity this opportunity doesn't happen to many people and many dancers obviously and it was it was it was something that a i had to accept i didn't want to regret. i regret having not made the decision to come but. may it be the case that you will regret that you decided to accept the