i resist those kinds of words, they try -- i talk a little in this book about not wanting to use the word abusive to describe the relationship. it is that kind of word to me that simplifies something very complicated. i would rather look at the complicated thing but what i wanted to do in this book was examined some of these questions that i wrote about in a much more polemical, argumentative way outside of that political framework and that argument and the polemic. not that i'm rethinking things i wrote before, not that i am re-canceling or changing my previous opinions but i wanted to write in a different register. i have become less interested and a lot of us have in the kind of political generalizations, there is something predictable about this kind of politics in the way these things get talked about and i want to take those questions about power and look at them outside of those arguments so i think i brought more, i think the notebook form allowed me as you said to bring my uncertainty and doubt and confusion and put them on a page which is not something i would have ever thou

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and learned that nothing ever have been done with them and i learn about it that. through a kind of round about way and i started looking for them and you know, you know if you tell true stories for your job, when you hear that there's like this cash of untouched material sitting somewhere, you know it is look a treasure hunt. and it was just a purpose of you know that was back in 2014 i guess so it was like years of just looking for that. any other documentation and archives calling you know looking up for survivors and we get names of survivors into the quake and who were involved in the stories and like calling you know 28, in a phonebook and not finding one you're looking for and that went on for years you know, and it sucked leak it was -- it was so bad but every once in a while you hit somewhere, and then be like sign up for a few more years of that. that was like how it started like trying to gets over the fear because usually i can call whoever i want, and with enough persistence find out what i want to know and worried can i tell a stoi like this if i'm going to hit poin

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and that's why i kind of looked at, well, should i go back to work?> reporter: mark did go back to work. >> you have to do the right thing. >> reporter: but he's not alone in that dilemma. a study from the university of chicago shows nearly 70% of unemployed workers eligible for benefits receive more in jobless payments than their lost earnings. it's a number that hits at the heart of one of the thorniest debates in congress. should the aid be extended when it expires this month? is it helping or preventing people from going back to work? >> yes, that is a concern. it should keep the overall environment in line in which this is playing out. >> reporter: an economist with the policy lab which has been studying the impact the additional $600 in federal aid has had on unemployed californians. what they found is that without that money about half of those currently receiving benefits, 1.7 million californians, would be below the poverty level for a single person. so basically you're saying this $600 a week is pretty important to a lot of californians? >>

it is a big one to thomas i'm pretty shocked on the slope to floyd is by an easy going to come as i kind of plan. that same year i want a silver medal as one of germany's best use of football and for him it was more than just an award you mean even though. i'm going to have this for them from america's close friends must know i. ask america does this. or that if you put in so. much of the 152016 just months off to celebrating his 1st championship title and celebrating his going to sleep then you became in the 18 minutes away brain i'm. fine also experiencing kind of so i don't know. i'm there for mr fired. from for you this one and also to be a fun summer to me and not on best finger obvious. on the team that's in front of them from you know from then on the 17 year old was a regular living creatures 1st and gained international attention playing champions league by this time it was a figure she was by this image that acts limit bad luck with her figure she won it with. this i know market position one of a kind can no longer so small now more than 6 months old scored his 1st goal in his

i called them and talked to the head of evangelism at apple. his name is guy kawasaki, kinded into a famous person. i said, you know, i'm 19 years old. i just put all my life savings into your computer to write software, and it doesn't work, so why don't you explain to me why that is? this was in may of 1984. he was like, why don't you come to work here this summer and help us fix it, because we are having some problems? [laughter] i was like, what was that? he's like, we will hire you as an intern into apple. i'm like, ok, where are you? well, he is in cupertino, a 15 minute drive, actually right next to my father's store. david: did you meet steve jobs , have any relationship with him? marc: i did. i met steve jobs, and steve jobs ended up having a huge impact on my life, especially when i started salesforce. it was a very, very meaningful and powerful relationship. and i would not be the person i am and salesforce would not be the company it is without steve jobs. david: now, when salesforce was started, you started a system of having people develop applications, apps, an

of thought that was different but didn't really think much of it and kind of felt as though i could feel myself kind of blacking out and then the next morning when i got up to use the restroom and take a shower i realised how much pain i was actually in and i was still bleeding and i just you know i kind of was wondering well what happened and i tried really hard to remember and i couldn't the case actually has not developed i went back to legal help and they told me after about 4 months of investigating that there was no evidence and that the case would be dropped the pentagon issued a report in april or may mounting number of claims of sexual assault in the us military while again sees plenty of cases are glossed over like getting independent investigators involved is a crucial stage. i saw a lot of females that i actually worked with that experienced harassment and assault and even rape so i just thought it was crazy that this is actually the culture of it and no one is talking to each other about it so if it is happening and it's happening a lot. in just the amount of control th

i had a great year that year in you know that kind of the sent me on my way. i'm trying to think that the surface over there and you've even told me when i watch it now the clay and the doll obviously that says kingdom roland garros but you told me back when you were playing it was beyond clay sort of like you're playing it on a mud puddle right it was so little because dr it's not good at parting. they've made a lot of the all the surfaces to be more or less the same the same speed the same bounce because most of the players play the same but. the french back back in the early years for you know when i was when i 1st started it was very heavy very thick. and also the balls treatment balls were exceptionally heavy so it whether it fit my game or not i don't i don't really know i never got to the finals of the french after because the year that i was kept out of playing the french tennis i had a bad attitude didn't play for 67 years after that so what what what could have happened then who knows but it turned out to be one of my favorite tournaments because i'd

after the london games. >> i spent a few days not wanting to be alive in my room, and, you know, i kind of realized there was something else that i could do i could try to ask for help and honestly doing that and seeing a therapist saved my life hopefully, you know, us standing up and sharing our stories can, one, destigmatize it, but also help people understand they're not alone and it's okay to not be okay i think that is the biggest thing. >> reporter: kate snow, nbc news. >> what an important message from him tonight. >>> up next, life on mars, a new mission. >>> let's take a break from what's going on here on earth. tom costello with a new mission on mars. >> reporter: headed to mars tomorrow, a new rover named perseverance it's loaded with cameras and probes and drills to collect soil and rock samples for a future trip to earth even a microphone so we can all hear what mars sounds like but it's the tiny helicopter or drone that's getting the most attention it will fly just 15 feet off the ground surveying the mars landscape. >> we're hoping to be like the wright brothers moment bu

of should the economy sort of son i was kind of future captain and if an arm of the 134 suddenly looked awful they still have the stuff i know not the more good how did my my of quantum of all of what i must release about how to show you had such a more good ol americano blue collar was in one of the was on a few people him like you know some night that's awful how do you. say it's a fact in my whole new home you by the one of you has a lot but she was the new home we home was suburb it's a fact that can and will get home most of the belief that i might yet wash it with silas no mama says you mean everything fatty and not a man a human. look at it the $51.00 was ready at what it was she was arrived yet how to blow itself out how to how dumb i want to said my money or i didn't follow it up an awful lot of them of all the what are you nuts for them fall off. that you thought not of would not want to spare a quantum of good luck well. in these circumstances what would be the basis of dialogue when you are killing each other. and if you had that much out. and took

i look back at that match with fondness only because. that kind of set me on my way it gave me the feeling after being out for a year that you know i can get in there and i can grind it with the shank kids and if i get in a little bit better shape and you know work on my game a little bit more that something good might happen and you know come september or something good that happened at the u.s. open. what an amazing run that was jimi what i mean when i think back 1st off i love living on the west coast the night time tarna months back east and because it always starts i don't even know when you've got on that night but it's usually after a night or something it seems to me i'm watching you climb the fence on the side of the court like 1 in the morning one of the most amazing runs ever all the way up through the semis tell me what's well you are there as they say are members of that you must have been juiced i don't mean just that's the wrong term well johnson can say that now let's say they're right let's check. your must have been jab just up i

come from you as i get now but nothing like a google as well as i really like the concept of i read here is kind of likely. because like i connect to privacy yeah exactly i thing like basically when we talk about reality i think he's quite. nice already all so last so long. i really. main thing in this country and it's controlled by so we may thing that i think. i will one day it may not be long to us maybe because like me i used to social media where we give away. free access to free so he says that kind of thing for convenience i kind of stuff but i will say a thing has changed a lot. gradually. has a right to know. my view. and how he is going to be used. he's going to be. if you look at something like privacy the argument against it is that if you have nothing to hide. why do you need privacy rights but on the other hand when you eliminate something like privacy they can fundamentally change a society right if you stifle dissent if you stifle an opinion which it isn't you know the mass opinion or the or the official government approved opinion then you meant to lose something as a society in

i kind of like it.-- might want to keep it - talking to a couple vocal coaches. [ light laughter ] see if i can keep it >> questlove: make it a thing? >> jimmy: yeah, make it my thing. >> questlove: make it a thing? >> jimmy: yeah, this is gonna be a thing it started off, you know lemonade out of lemons >> questlove: i don't think -- i don't think it's a good fit. [ light laughter ] >> jimmy: it's -- what are you talking about? this fits me >> questlove: i don't know >> jimmy: you know what, do you remember when we were on the thanksgiving day float no, not that story >> questlove: oh, okay >> jimmy: the other story. no, no no, not -- not richard simmons, that was great but, no, this is when we were on the float and i was up, i forget what we were on, some giant something, and i was screaming, i was so excited. it was the first time. >> tariq: oh, yeah yeah. >> jimmy: i was like, "happy thanksgiving happy thanksgiving!" yelling and you go, "dude, dude save your instrument [ laughter ] >> tariq: yeah, yo

and i went in and i kind of crept in quietly and all of a sudden, jimmy goes, "hey, nancy! you're nancy hi, it's so nice to meet you welcome. and i felt just so embraced and cool thank you. thank you for welcoming me in. this is so nice. it's so intimidating so i had that thought from years before going in. and then - >> jimmy: 'cause it can be intimidating if you go to "saturday night live" and don't know anybody >> so intimidating and i had no real reason to be there. i was sort of like, meeting her to go somewhere or something anyway, so -- but then on the set, we were on location and that really creates this camp feel for everybody. and -- >> hello >> hi. and he was just so friendly and fun and welcoming and he loved music. and then, when i really developed a crush was when bradley thomas' kids came to set and he had a little girl named lucy and a little boy named charlie. and i played with lucy and jimmy played with charlie. and really played, like, really into it as if they had come to visit us and so i think that's when my oh, they were so cute. >> yeah, they're like

i like google and see by like old movies i like sports i just leave it on the background i kind of dig it i don't need t.v. to always be hyper it important it just kind of is entertainment my daughter in law loves your show after all these years i told her i was talking to you steve got excited you know when i stopped watching the housewives shows a little though and i never was a have a season but i would watch it in passing it was your sister one night i watched your sister in a car with you and i thought i was privy to something i should not be irate you know she seemed so sweet to me and she was so sad about moment i thought maybe i shouldn't be watching this maybe i shouldn't be privy to this directly and i mean in the car or scaring her that moment i think a lot of people remember that moment and i remember being like on like 2020 they i interviewed me about that moment. yeah that's a part of reality tell isn't a step up because you know you can you come into something like has anything like it to you know certain parts of my life private to myself tell them i know about this who

>> i mean, it's hard to be in business with a family member. what kind of stuff do you fight over? k since we can't actually divorce because we are family, we have to talk it out, so it kind of works out. ♪ >> eventually, the cousins decide they don't just want to sell oysters to other people's restaurants -- they want some restaurants of their own. in 2011, they open merroir, an upscale tasting room overlooking the rappahannock river, where their great-grandfather got things started back in 1899. ooh! look at those babies! >> anything else i can get for you? >> not for now, but more of these. >> okay. enjoy. >> and the tasting room's just the beginning. starting in 2012, the cousins launch rappahannock, a full-service farm-to-table restaurant in richmond, virginia, along with more upscale oyster bars in washington, d.c., charleston, south carolina, and l.a. >> it's kind of funny -- the oystering was scary enough, and then restaurants was super scary. know, my dad was, like, telling my wife one time, "don't let him do this thing. don't let him do this". but now he eats at the restau

kind of ignored. or just can't dismiss. putin runs that same risk. iid think in some of the interactions although he's achieved extremely well prepared some of them he he she is going to the motion and son he's kind of slightly lays response to a few things here and there, just kind of still going over old tropes or all formats. this is still a guy who really prepares and is and this kind s trying to be one step ahead. also he yes a great advantage w that the system, people around them all work together for so long. participation in the time of interacting with we kept changing players all the time. living on the kind of relationship at the top contact and every other level of interlocutors kind of falling by the wayside which gives putin an incredible advantage. i can see that also adds and i think to a bit of a sense of laziness about it. he doesn't have to try so hard and he do think he's probably become complacent in thinking that kind of the international front everything he's been doing has been working and so again it becomes less of an incentiv

eligible enough to vote i wasn't kind of 18 years old but i kind of saw the queues of people certainly non whites blacks colored indians and the like for the 1st time having the chance to put an x on the ballot paper so that was quite that was quite a momentous occasion in the history of south africa cities divide away in 25 years and probably take a generation or 2 to undo that this is where they classify people on whether you're black you're watching a colored you indian so this is the non whites only bench. and this is what. i can answer here. ok folks we've done wrapping up in the city center of cape town c.b.d. now with back to my neck of the woods in. the restaurant with people in the evening. again due to the covert $900.00 situation this place is about 99 percent of the patrons that come to this restaurant are international guests hopefully once the school is over we'll have you wining and dining with the restaurant and beautiful. and monica the woods and have fun with us. my next stop involved in the is a tour of the harbor. on board the cap we 1st pass along. the stretch of w

i am kind of listening to them and it feels inside they are right. pence will never sign a i said don't worry"mike pence will never sign a, law against the gays, i've met him." he is great. [laughter] well, he did. i was surprised and upset. i tweeted. well, this is going to force of if indiana will discriminate , against our lgbtq employees, we are going to disinvest in indiana. how am i going to bring my because customers there and my , employees there and how am i going to hire and make a great tech company there if they are discriminating against lgbtq customers and employees and everyone else? that opened a door. by the next day, every other company like eli lilly, cummins, and hundreds of other companies, even companies all over the world said, "i agree with marc, we are going to disinvest." mike pence called me and said "what are we going to do?" and i said "i think we are going to have to issue rolling economic sanctions against the state of indiana." [laughter] what does that mean? and he is like i don't know but , i think it will be bad and

so i wanted to sort of hear from you what's kind of been happening. ed and i talked to you... -lemonis: about anything. -dede: about anything. lemonis: like, is our payroll gonna be made or is the sales tax paid? -she didn't like any of it. -dede: no. she didn't like the fact that i was letting a man take charge of the situation, and she told me she's an entrepreneur, so she didn't need somebody else telling her how to run her business. i was kind of confused, because that's not -how we went into this process. -lemonis: right. dede: but then the straw that broke the camel's back was i had already put in like 80 hours and so i told sam that i needed to go home, and she told me to get back now or she was firing me for job abandonment, and i said "it's not job abandonment when i've already put in my time. i've completed my work. i need to go home. i'm just done" well, then they came in and said that they talked and since i couldn't make a financial commitment that they didn't want me to be an owner. lemonis: so after we made the commitment... dede: mm-hmm

yeah, i was asking on a level of i think it's this kind of period of time which is probably impactingrs, just women in our communities globally. and i think sometimes we can kind of forget more or less it creates this undue pressure on them, kind of like being the nurturers of our society. so, that is why i kind of framed that question like, what can we do, as sons or fathers orjust people, or families, globally, to kind of ensure that the women in their lives are ok? well, i would say on a very personal level, it would be recognising what the women around you are doing and really making a point of appreciating it and recognising it because i think, you know, everyone knows that we have to do what we have to do to get through this, and i think it is not really about gender here, i think it is about everybody having to appreciate the contribution that we are all making. if you are a son or if you are a partner or if you are an employer and you're a man, i think to recognise that what the women in your life are contributing actually goes a long way. as well, obviously, as trying to make

well i think that there is different kinds of taxes that most americans already pay a wealth tax because they pay property taxes on their own real estate where they live so i think it's only fair that rich investors also pay a wealth tax that most middle class people 'd already. but that's just one more question to you before we bring in our guest again i mean it's not the 1st time that you've done this is it if you push for more progressive tax system in the past i do you feel that there's a there's an audience for this that it is really going to get anywhere well sure some of the ideas we had that were considered crazy left wing nutcase ideas 5 or 10 years ago most presidential candidates the democratic side were talking about this to this year so yes we've moved the needle a long ways and we've made a lot of progress towards making the tax system more progressive and. the millionaires from beyond to say in the last that the solution is not just in donating to charities and yet we've had hugely significant donations from very wealthy people contributing to corona virus vaccines to coro

thing you have going on where you're judging yourself but it doesn't come across that way so i think it was kind of built in and when i started doing children's theatre that was where i found that i really liked being on stage and being funny but there's such a difference for me between how i am when i'm you know hanging out with my family versus how i am on stage and so that that was something that i had to really discover as a kid it's like i can go in from these strangers and. something really crazy and then at home i probably went to that but. now i can see your blending in the emblem on your t. shirt in the light ly lack paint over your shoulder it's very rest of 5. yeah i know none of those things are really color experts and i can just see your comfy in your home you know we're in a war lapis and films are wrong missy was spotlessly spotlight david spade over on netflix given to watch her lapse another good thing i find about l.a. is i miss too whiny when i 1st started and l.a. was so cut and dry about the things you get sent out for that i started it unbelievably to me because i always t

of a double standard though i kind of like one side can actually get their act together and hold somebody accountable while the other is kind of you hear crickets from that nor the issue right now that one side can hold the other side of how about yeah other than and saying republicans aren't good at all in the feet to the fire groover. well certainly part of it about right now ruben is my hero he is an un civil servant and i kind of like that because he speaks as right a scot to you do it as well i understand that but we're not that far here's what's frightening all kidding aside we're not that far away from actual book burnings i mean these folks will tear down abe lincoln and why jesus like i said they'll tear down anybody they're going to tear it down woodrow wilson at the princeton school of administration they're going to tear down l.b.j. that can tear down anybody that they think might have crossed a line any time ever now let me say this as far as confederate statues go i never understood why we had confederate statues of people that took up arms against the united states

would be 24 hours and i thought i have so i loop because if i get off my patterns just a little i get kind antsy about it but i guess in some way like you said it's easy for you because you don't operate all day i guess we have a little more sway over our own selves that we would give ourselves credit for. you know it's amazing what you can train your body to do and what you get used to is it turns out and i'm not recommending ehrman fasting for everybody but for a lot of people once you get past the sort and sort of momentum stage of it the inertial stage of it it actually gives you incredible energy not having any food in your stomach not having any glycogen around if you think about it you know we're animals right we're meant to hunt and gather and we're predators and so when you don't have any food when you're hungry that's when your smartest your smartest your strongest your fastest your most cunning because you have to be otherwise you don't survive evolutionarily we were meant to intermittent fast and when you are without food in your system you're unstoppable so once you get to tha