but icahn teardown. i was showing her love. she asked me if she were a hutu. i told her she was a tutsi, like me, because i was her mother and cared for her. and it did not matter any more. we are all were landon's now. the issue of tried is over. -- we are all rouyn's and -- rwandan now. >> there was a proverb that says upbringing is more important and birth, and i believe that. 1994 is not everything. i get memories of the genocide on the anniversary in april, but 1994 is no longer the most important thing in my life. instead of remembering 1994, i think about my children and their education. 1994 is no longer in me. >> 16 years is long enough for a child to grow up. it is a short time to recover from the horrors of rwanda has seen, and rape is still a crime that is hardest to discuss. how would the children escaped stigma as they reach adulthood will be a measure of how much of rwanda has managed to but the past behind it. >> since the film was made, jean-claude as learned the details of his conception. the bosnian parliament is the latest of several in eur