specific relatives, then when we left for communication, because there was no communication in ivankivshchynathat time, they did not know anything for a month. in general, we told them that we were in kyiv . and that's when they began to tell their relatives that they were alive, what horrors they experienced , who had what, who was shot, which neighbors remained alive . that is, you understand that you listen to all these stories and you must, you must pass them on to your relatives because this is the most important thing what you can do for a person now is emotions and support, she doesn't need medicine, she doesn't need food, but she needs support now, because she was alone with other victims all the time, and not with people who might feel sorry. that is, it's a little. a big difference, because a volunteer, like himself on his own, he only acts as psychological help, which he can provide urgently now, because everyone else understands it. and you, as a person, should try to understand regret, and when we passed on all these appeals, relatives cried, and so thank you for letting us know,