cos, you know, iwent through times when i was suicidal and i didn't want to live anymore and i didn't but now, it's completely different. totally excited. good girl! through all of this, it's really clear that the harshjudgement of society piles of pressure on to those living with obesity. i think ijust need some kindness. i need kindness from others, but i mostly need kindness from myself, and i think that could be the help that i need. the hope for many is that with more public understanding of obesity, stigma finally start to lift. my biggest thing was realising . that it was a problem that i had, that it was affecting the decisions that i was making in my life - and at least being able to admit that to not only myself- but to the people around me that it also affected. - it changed everything for me. ijust have learned to give a little bit more to myself than i did before. where are you with that now? i'm getting there, i'm getting there. it's a long journey. it's years and years and years and years of change, but i'm getting there. if you've been affected by any of the issues rai