>> reporter: j.j. rush was dead. his ex-wife cara ryan killed him. in self-defense, she said. w she set about telling the detectives about the real j.j. same thing she told us. not a pretty picture, she said. >> right after we got married, the compulsive gambling became the big issue. and there were days where he could go from sundown to sunup. and there's no windows in the casino, so, he would just lose all track of time. >> reporter: did you go with him? >> i did, and i didn't like it. >> reporter: cara was a school teacher, remember. and one day, she said, she got a nasty letter from the florida department of education. >> the state was going to pull my teaching certificate, because he hadn't paid my student loans. >> reporter: he paid the bills in the early days of their marriage, she said. >> so, i started looking at the accounts, thinking, what's going on here? i don't understand. >> reporter: what was going on, cara said, was they were broke. >> i felt really betrayed and lied to and hurt. >> reporter: so, she said, she laid down the law. took over the financial stuff. a