my man, jack i brewer, brewer foundation founder. his a little bit. this issue, as it has blossomed, you've talked about the it for a long time, i've talked about it for a long time. i think it's always important to understand the general sit of these issues -- genesises of these issues to somehow resolve them. talk to us about that. >> you know, the unfortunate reality is that we're in a society now where you can actually see the results of us just, you know, almost abandoning young boys and men, you know? and i focus on the youth so much, charles, because uh-uh think end when you start looking at reading and math deficiencies, how many of our young men who don't have fathers end up in prison or yale, you start to really see -- or jail, you see what happens when you stop teaching boys to actually be men. you see, you know, whether it's abuse and domestic violence, all those things are through the roof and that's just because, you know, we don't teach men how to respect women, how to respect family, how to build family. charles: right