and then you could james cliburn of south carolina, the majority whip who is an african-american as saying every child has lost every excuse. and then you say what? that is where i have to put my foot down. that is going a bridge too far. help us out. >> guest: well, i think, you know, a lot of people, i think, listen. a lot of people that everything had changed. the election of obama, and what we are seeing is that is kind of the farthest from the truce. in fact, we are moving into an area in the kind of national consciousness that we have not been in before. people on the one hand what it to be true that many things have changed. and the fact, remained stubborn that family life has not necessarily changed, economic conditions have actually gotten worse for love people, partly because the recession. it has nothing to do with obama, although it's becoming more to do with them as it becomes more his economic issue that was bush's. and you see kind of the reactions that people are having a round the issue of race. prenup the idea of raise in and of itself to make the accuser. everything is d